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Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Coaching vs. Therapy: Which Support Do I Need?
Understand the difference between narcissistic abuse recovery coaching and therapy, when each may help, and how survivor-led coaching can support rebuilding after abuse.
SANDE SUE
Sep 33 min read


How to Rebuild Self-Trust After Narcissistic Abuse
Learn how to rebuild self-trust after narcissistic abuse by reconnecting with your feelings, decisions, boundaries, values and voice one choice at a time.
SANDE SUE
Sep 33 min read


Signs You May Be Recovering From Narcissistic Abuse
Signs you may be recovering from narcissistic abuse, from second-guessing yourself to rebuilding boundaries, identity and self-trust after emotional manipulation.
SANDE SUE
Sep 33 min read


What Is Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Coaching?
Learn what narcissistic abuse recovery coaching is, how it differs from therapy, who it helps, and how The Watered Willow helps women rebuild self-trust and boundaries.
SANDE SUE
Sep 33 min read


Why Is It So Hard to Let Go?
You would think that once you finally understand what is happening, letting go would be easy. It isn't. For me, one of the biggest reasons was empathy. I've always had a pretty good sense of people. I can often see their pain, even when they aren't talking about it. I can feel when someone is hurting or lost. And even though my mother could be incredibly mean and hurtful, I could also see something else. I could see that she was lost herself. That mattered to me. I could see
SANDE SUE
Aug 308 min read


I am The Watered Willow
There is something I want you to know about me before we go any further. I have never believed in being hard on myself. If I gain weight, I don't punish myself for it. If I don't get the job, I don't decide that I'm not good enough. If a relationship doesn't work out, I don't want to spend the rest of my life believing that must mean something is wrong with me. Life is already going to be hard on us. I don't believe we need to join in. And after everything I have lived throug
SANDE SUE
Aug 114 min read


The Confusion Is Part of It
One of the hardest things to explain about a narcissistic relationship is just how confusing it can be. Because it isn't bad all the time. There are good days. There are moments of affection. Laughter. Attention. Kindness. Maybe even moments when you think, There you are. This is the person I knew was in there. And hope comes rushing back. Maybe they're changing. Maybe they finally understand. Maybe this time will be different. That little bit of love or attention can be enou
SANDE SUE
Aug 116 min read
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